AuthorLove, Walter

Missionary Impossible

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Dear Walter, I’m in a new relationship and I’m starting to feel the pressure from friends and family, say they want to meet him, I don’t know what to do. I’m starting to feel the pressure. —Newly In Love Dear Newly In Love, I have a new designer drug and it’s my boyfriend. I crave him no matter the cost. We converted his bedroom into our love nest. I spend 80 percent of my time naked under 400...

Erotic City

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Love Walter: Erotic City Dear Walter, Love your column by the way. I’m a longtime reader. I love the way you write your debaucherous tales with such humor and honesty. I guess my question is more of a request. I would love to hear about one of your wildest experiences, was there a moment that made you reflect? —Curious Reader Dear Curious Reader, Let me enchant you with a tale from my crypt. Once...

Hopeless, Lost and Seduced in New York City

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Dear Walter, Have you ever felt lonely? Winter is near and it feels like my darkest hour. Have you ever felt like that? —Party of One Dear Party of One, I considered myself a survivor. Instead of being decked out like Destiny’s Child. I was a Beyonce on a budget. Somehow I pulled a Michelle, meandering around Manhattan in a mediocre way. I arrived one Friday morning, lugging around a black...

Fast Love and the Fall of Romance

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Dear Walter, I find the dating scene to be awkward. As a fellow gay man, it seems like the scene is just about random sex. I’m looking for something more but I don’t enough I can continue with the way things are. Have you experienced this? Any advice? —Over Random Encounters Dear Over Random Encounters, Sex was on the menu for a romance intolerant New Yorker, navigating awkward mating rituals on...

I Thought All I Wanted Was a Happy Meal

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Drinking during the nights to pass the day will only leave you hungover. Will it reveal the truth or just more lies? My world is converging, mentally, physically, emotionally and financially. The struggle is real and the hustle is deep. I go deeper and deeper like Madonna. I hate this feeling. Working 9 to 5, time and time again is supposed to set us up for the win. Dust settles all over Georgia...

An Open Letter to my Readers

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To whom you may concern: This is an open letter to all of the readers who enjoyed a morsel from my memory. To those have come before you and to those that remain. And to the lovers, boyfriend’s and one night stands, back and forth, back and forth another notch on my bedpost. And to the forgotten and dogtrotted and to my newest visitors, I’m still here. And LoveWalter.com is going nowhere. Yes I’m...

Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman

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Dear Walter: I’ll just dive right in… I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and things are getting complicated. He tells me I never listen to him, and he needs someone who is emotionally supportive. I try to be there for him as best as I can. We live together. I go to school and he works. His hours are from 1:30-9 at night and he hates it. He hates every job he’s...

It’s a Hard Knock Life

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Dear Walter, I find my boyfriend too controlling. It’s like we are having a power struggle. He wants what he wants when he wants. And I usually like that but lately, it’s been less sexy and more of annoying. I don’t know how to assert myself without pissing him off. What shall I do? —Controlled and Checked Dear Controlled and Checked, Power is not just a show on tv. It’s a show of strength and...

What a Girl Wants is Just What a Girl Needs

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Hi Walter, I hope you have the time to answer this because I’m completely lost. My first real relationship was with a woman about 2 years ago. I loved her and later she told me that she, “had love for me and was never in love with me.” I know this all too well. I’ve heard it from every man I’ve ever loved and now the woman I loved. I’m still trying to put back...

Didn’t We Almost Have it All

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Dear Walter, I finally found the one. We dated for a couple of years until he died on me. I was beyond devastated. How do you bounce back when then you’re supposed to be with dies on you?  -Deeply Devastated Dear Deeply Devastated: I’m sorry this happened to you. I too experienced a similar thing. My first boyfriend died when I was 22. And the ghost of that relationship haunted me until 30.  At...

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