AuthorLove, Walter

Reclaiming my Time

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Dear Walter, How was your New Year’s? -To whom it may concern. Dear To whom it may concern, It’s so hard to say goodbye like Boyz II Men. My so-called man left two days before Christmas to visit his family and never returned. It gets better. He strung me along for nearly two weeks before deciding on the day of that he wasn’t coming back. And this happened before I had to clock in into my...

Be Good or Be Good at It

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Dear Walter, I’m a bottom and my man is a top. But lately he has been hinting that he wants to experiment in the bedroom. He talks about how he’s never bottomed before but he’s super curious. I’m nervous. I’m worried if I don’t give, in he may want to to try this with some one else. —Bedroom Bottom Dear Bedroom Bottom, In my sessions, I dance like a diva on a dime while my legs are intertwined...

Straight Men Are Really Not That Straight

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No-one is 100 percent straight. Ritch C. Savin Williams, professor emeritus of development psychology at Cornell University, suggests this theory in his new book: Mostly Straight: Sexuality Fluidity Among Men. Before some gays get excited about converting seemingly straight men in the locker room — let’s dive deeper. Sexuality is on a spectrum. The Kinsey Scale was first developed by Dr. Alfred...

Not Myself After Midnight

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Dear Walter, I have been going out lately alone, even though I’m in a committed relationship. My boyfriend is a homebody and I’m not. I like to go out, flirt and have a little fun. But sometimes when I get home I feel a little guilty. He starts asking me all these questions getting all paranoid. Then I get defensive and another argument happens. I don’t know what to do. Has this ever happened to...

Missionary Impossible

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Dear Walter, I’m in a new relationship and I’m starting to feel the pressure from friends and family, say they want to meet him, I don’t know what to do. I’m starting to feel the pressure. —Newly In Love Dear Newly In Love, I have a new designer drug and it’s my boyfriend. I crave him no matter the cost. We converted his bedroom into our love nest. I spend 80 percent of my time naked under 400...

Erotic City

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Love Walter: Erotic City Dear Walter, Love your column by the way. I’m a longtime reader. I love the way you write your debaucherous tales with such humor and honesty. I guess my question is more of a request. I would love to hear about one of your wildest experiences, was there a moment that made you reflect? —Curious Reader Dear Curious Reader, Let me enchant you with a tale from my crypt. Once...

Fast Love and the Fall of Romance

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Dear Walter, I find the dating scene to be awkward. As a fellow gay man, it seems like the scene is just about random sex. I’m looking for something more but I don’t enough I can continue with the way things are. Have you experienced this? Any advice? —Over Random Encounters Dear Over Random Encounters, Sex was on the menu for a romance intolerant New Yorker, navigating awkward mating rituals on...

I Thought All I Wanted Was a Happy Meal

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Drinking during the nights to pass the day will only leave you hungover. Will it reveal the truth or just more lies? My world is converging, mentally, physically, emotionally and financially. The struggle is real and the hustle is deep. I go deeper and deeper like Madonna. I hate this feeling. Working 9 to 5, time and time again is supposed to set us up for the win. Dust settles all over Georgia...

An Open Letter to my Readers

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To whom you may concern: This is an open letter to all of the readers who enjoyed a morsel from my memory. To those have come before you and to those that remain. And to the lovers, boyfriend’s and one night stands, back and forth, back and forth another notch on my bedpost. And to the forgotten and dogtrotted and to my newest visitors, I’m still here. And LoveWalter.com is going nowhere. Yes I’m...

Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman

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Dear Walter: I’ll just dive right in… I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and things are getting complicated. He tells me I never listen to him, and he needs someone who is emotionally supportive. I try to be there for him as best as I can. We live together. I go to school and he works. His hours are from 1:30-9 at night and he hates it. He hates every job he’s...

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