CategoryAdvice

Missionary Impossible

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Dear Walter, I’m in a new relationship and I’m starting to feel the pressure from friends and family, say they want to meet him, I don’t know what to do. I’m starting to feel the pressure. —Newly In Love Dear Newly In Love, I have a new designer drug and it’s my boyfriend. I crave him no matter the cost. We converted his bedroom into our love nest. I spend 80 percent of my time naked under 400...

Erotic City

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Love Walter: Erotic City Dear Walter, Love your column by the way. I’m a longtime reader. I love the way you write your debaucherous tales with such humor and honesty. I guess my question is more of a request. I would love to hear about one of your wildest experiences, was there a moment that made you reflect? —Curious Reader Dear Curious Reader, Let me enchant you with a tale from my crypt. Once...

Hopeless, Lost and Seduced in New York City

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Dear Walter, Have you ever felt lonely? Winter is near and it feels like my darkest hour. Have you ever felt like that? —Party of One Dear Party of One, I considered myself a survivor. Instead of being decked out like Destiny’s Child. I was a Beyonce on a budget. Somehow I pulled a Michelle, meandering around Manhattan in a mediocre way. I arrived one Friday morning, lugging around a black...

Fast Love and the Fall of Romance

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Dear Walter, I find the dating scene to be awkward. As a fellow gay man, it seems like the scene is just about random sex. I’m looking for something more but I don’t enough I can continue with the way things are. Have you experienced this? Any advice? —Over Random Encounters Dear Over Random Encounters, Sex was on the menu for a romance intolerant New Yorker, navigating awkward mating rituals on...

Not a Girl, Not Yet a Woman

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Dear Walter: I’ll just dive right in… I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now, and things are getting complicated. He tells me I never listen to him, and he needs someone who is emotionally supportive. I try to be there for him as best as I can. We live together. I go to school and he works. His hours are from 1:30-9 at night and he hates it. He hates every job he’s...

It’s a Hard Knock Life

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Dear Walter, I find my boyfriend too controlling. It’s like we are having a power struggle. He wants what he wants when he wants. And I usually like that but lately, it’s been less sexy and more of annoying. I don’t know how to assert myself without pissing him off. What shall I do? —Controlled and Checked Dear Controlled and Checked, Power is not just a show on tv. It’s a show of strength and...

What a Girl Wants is Just What a Girl Needs

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Hi Walter, I hope you have the time to answer this because I’m completely lost. My first real relationship was with a woman about 2 years ago. I loved her and later she told me that she, “had love for me and was never in love with me.” I know this all too well. I’ve heard it from every man I’ve ever loved and now the woman I loved. I’m still trying to put back...

Didn’t We Almost Have it All

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Dear Walter, I finally found the one. We dated for a couple of years until he died on me. I was beyond devastated. How do you bounce back when then you’re supposed to be with dies on you?  -Deeply Devastated Dear Deeply Devastated: I’m sorry this happened to you. I too experienced a similar thing. My first boyfriend died when I was 22. And the ghost of that relationship haunted me until 30.  At...

He Only Comes Just Before Sunrise

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Dear Walter,  I desperately need your help. I’m falling for this guy. He is so masculine and handsome and everything I want in a man. But he’s DL, has a girlfriend/baby mother, and he only wants to see me at night. Something tells me this isn’t going anywhere but I can’t help but hold out hope. What shall I do?  -Down-low Lover  Dear Down-low Lover, Looks like stupid Cupid called again, but he...

Flying too Close to the Sun

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Hi Walter,  I just came out a few months ago. I heard stories of sexual experiences being life-changing. My men were mostly mediocre. Maybe it’s me but so far it’s been boring. As a bottom I feel like after the top cums that’s it. And it’s over. I sit there disappointed. There has to be more to life than this. Have you ever had a sexual experience that was exciting or life-changing? —Just Bending...

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