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When Is It Right to Get Married?

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Dear Walter: I’m gay male. Can I ask your opinion on how soon you think is too soon to ask someone to marry you? We both have had open conversations about it, and know what each other want in a wedding. We just had our 6 month anniversary, and we live together now. At any rate, I bought the ring because he’s always mentioning it but when I talked to one of his friends/coworkers he thinks it’s too...

3 Ways to Ruin Your Relationship or Sex Life

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We could have had it all like Adele but frustrations from his friends and family had our relationship rolling in some deep shit. Ray and I have been dating for months. We were at the introduction phase of meeting friends and family. There are elements within a courtship that can be toxic. Poisonous prattle from a coterie of clowns could turn a pair of smiles upside down. What about his friends...

10 Ways I Fucked and Fooled Around in 2016

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From my first threesome to dating a Trump supporter, my bad romance in 2016 waged a war on my sex life. And this pussy snatched back. A slow start to the year led to a need for speed dating. I engaged in instant relationships with guys who couldn’t commit to a cup of coffee. Searching for truth between my thighs, open my eyes on what I wanted in a relationship.  1. Fucking In a Car Is Fast...

What It’s Like to Have a Really Shitty First Date?

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First dates are like to first mistakes that decide a relationship’s fate. Malls are for normal people. The idea of going door to door indoors seemed archaic. After two martinis and a promise of the free meal, I got dressed to meet him. This would be our first date. I didn’t know what to expect.  It felt like 2002 again. I met him in front of the Nordstrom, and I hoped it was the other...

Fucking During the Holidays Is Not a Relationship?

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Dear Walter: I’m 27-year-old gay guy. I recently met someone. We’ve had sex. Should I start a relationship over the holidays or should I drag out being single? —Holiday Hookup An instant relationship is like a cup of noodles. It’s hot for 30 seconds. But, if you think your courtship is built to last like a Chevy. Why not stuff yourself and each other with turkey? Let’s strive to be the people we...

What It’s Like Cruising For Anonymous Sex for a Week?

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It’s a thin line between cruising and having a crisis. As a gay sex columnist, I went undercover to cruise for anonymous sex in public places for a week. What I First Remembered From My First Time Cruising When I was in my early 20s Martin Luther King library used to be ubiquitous for bathroom play: circle jerks and sucking dicks.  I and a coterie of my closest friends met at the...

Have You Ever Had Awkward Sex With a New Guy?

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I think we had sex. A cosmic journey created a solar eclipse where his shortcomings punctuated our first time. After dating Bobby for weeks, I considered, consummating our courtship. He wanted me to come over to see his place. I pictured a candle-lit dinner and wine. I arrived at an apartment with stuff everywhere. A dining room table littered with empty bottles of wine, dishes in the sink, and a...

What It’s Like to Work in the Porn Industry?

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As a gay sexpert, I had the pleasure of interviewing former porn star, Felony on his experience in porn, relationship drama with Slim Thug, and finding love again.   Felony courtesy of DwagpoundUSA Long before starring in pornography, Felony dreamed of becoming a police officer. He started his high school days in the Bronx at Evander High, infamous for finding a murdered student buried in...

Can You Really Be Friends with an Ex?

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I deleted him from Facebook. Passive Aggressive status updates tarnished our friendship. Ray and I no longer dated. We tried transitioning to friends. At least when you’re divorced you’re entitled to half their assets. We shared a phone plan and emotional baggage.    Source                                ...

Confessions of Anonymous Bathroom Sex

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It was a night to remember in Rochester, New York where his proclivity for public sex led him to the restroom of a bus station. Gangbanging challenged more than a gag reflex. A den of iniquity where more people got off without anyone paying for dinner. It started at the urinal.  “He had his BBC out and I got right on my knees,” he texted. “And the others joined in?” “Yes Sir, 2 more...

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