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Tank Gropes Himself During D.C. Black Pride Performance

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Tank recently performed shirtless at a Black Gay Pride event in DC over Memorial Day weekend. Cardi B, Phresher, and Safaree also performed. But Tank’s fans are questioning how much sugar he has in his tank? These hoes ain’t loyal.  Is this a legitimate question or is this blatant homophobia? Tank reminded me of the straight guy goes to gay bars because they enjoy free drinks and being...

To Douche, Or Not To Douche, That Is The Question

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Artwork by Anthony Gonzales on Instagram:  @anthgonz1 Shitting on dicks can kill romance real quick.  We call it painting. When balancing a regime of dining, drinking, and drugging—it’s not surprising that a douche is in order if you’re expected to get down back there.  I have a confession to make. I haven’t been doing it lately. Doing in the butt can leave his dick...

I Met 4 Gay Porn Stars and This Is What Happened

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In honor of Pornhub’s recent 10th birthday—I wrote about meeting four gay porn stars:  Hot Rod, Arquez, Ace Rockwood, and Red.  Here’s what they were like off camera.  1. Hot Rod  I met Hot Rod on a hot night at a little New York club called Secrets. I was introduced through a promoter boyfriend who promoted our relationship to anyone in the New York Tristate area. He towered...

Cum Together and Celebrate Pornhub’s 10th Birthday

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Pornhub turned 10 years old on May 25, 2017. One year older and so much more lube. Consider those candles blown.  The way we viewed porn changed in a decade. 75 percent of users use their smartphones and tablets to get off. With one hand on the penis and the other holding a cellphone—men are multitasking. To put that all in perspective, 1 percent of Pornhub’s traffic came from mobile devices...

How to Handle Accidentally Sleeping with a Family Member?

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Artwork by Anthony Gonzales  Dear Walter: I want to first start off by saying I love your writing and continue to do you.  Secondly I just want to say that I have a dilemma with something. For starters I am a reformed hoe and I got that way because I think I slept with one of my nephews.  Way-minute, I did not know he was my nephew at the time, because it didn’t...

Stealthing Is Rape with a Smile

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Artwork by Anthony Gonzales  Some men are getting creative with consent.  They call it stealthing. It’s when the person slips off the condom mid-coital and sneaks the penis in raw. This is fucked up. And violators should be prosecuted. But it’s not illegal—yet.  It’s hard to trust anyone when engaged in the world’s oldest act. Putting our bodies on the line because we are...

Tyson Beckford Nude Photo Leaks

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When I was a stylist working in New York City my dream was to work with Tyson Beckford. Being the lead black male model since the 90’s put excitement in my heart and a stiffness down my pants.  I first saw him in SoHo at the corner of Spring Street and 6th Avenue near the Chanel store. He stood there with a coterie of men like a normal person. In a city as busy as the Concrete Jungle...

Writing About My Sex Life Complicated My Relationship

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I write about sex for a living. I dissected whole relationships in columns after the fucking or relationship dissolved.  Punctuating my private thoughts with private parts in the internet age made everything public. What happens when you get caught writing about your current relationship?  Once while in bed, I used his iPad to promote my site on Facebook. “Baby, get the food before it...

Taye Diggs Bares His Butt on Instagram

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From donning wigs to dressing in drag, Taye Diggs is quite comfortable with his sexuality.  Empire’s latest guest star, (allegedly) accidentally bared his ass in an Instagram photo earlier this morning. What’s interesting about the photo is the how he tied his t-shirt from the back to punctuate his ass. That’s his leg tattoo in the photo.  He has since taken it down. ...

My First Date with a Straight Man

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I’m so fancy on a first date.  I love the ritual of selecting my best clothes to make a potential love connection. I put the art in artificial.  Gay dating is like a meat market where you meet men in bars—home to yesterday’s men past their shelf life. You hope to make plans for something more than a hookup.  We met at The Hanger on Christopher Street. Bobby approached...

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